Confidence and high
self-esteem are sexy, no question. In six studies from the Evolutionary
Psychology journal, men with ostensibly higher levels of self-esteem were rated
as more attractive and as more desirable relationship partners than those with
lower levels of self-esteem.
He is good at his job
In all
of his hit roles, from playing a drug lord on The Wire to a
detective on the hit BBC series Luther, he always appears to be very competent at his
work. Success at your job, whatever it is, conveys you have the skills to “get things
done,” and an achiever means a winner
Research that looked at U.S. presidential candidates between 1960 and 2000 found that in all eight elections, the candidate with the lower voice won the popular vote. Psychologically, we are more inclined to like men with lower-pitched and slower talking voices.
Women find men who don’t stress hotter. According to new research conducted at the University of Abertay Dundee, men with low stress levels are significantly more attractive to women than highly stressed rivals.
The science behind this speaks volumes. In a study I found, subjects induced to exchange a mutual unbroken gaze for 2 minutes with a stranger of the opposite sex reported increased feelings of passionate love for each other. That unflinching eye contact will hook ’em!
Uncertainty Increases Attraction
So who is Idris Elba dating? Hmmm, you don’t know? Neither do most of us, and that’s what you love about him. It’s the mysteriousness and uncertainty about the type of women he likes that actually makes him more compelling to all women.
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